SelectServer Database setup??? (v9x64 running on a Win2008R2 Std server)

Now that I have sent 2 inquiries to the help desk, found and searched the knowledge base, read all the posting rules and figured out how to post...

Can anyone tell me how to proceed with the "SelectServer database setup"? I want to set up a new (replacement) SelectServer, and was hoping to avoid the extra steps of transferring the database. I don't need the history...

I'm getting the impression that since the radio button for "use existing 2008sql express (or similar) button was selected (and could not be changed) during install need to use SQL Manager to create a database BEFORE using the Bentley software? The Bentley tool seems unwilling to cooperate on the third install attempt.

(BTW. rather aggravated that I cannot simply call or email support for help, and that I am referred to the KnowlwedgeBase. It's not like I'll be looking to do this many times in the future and need to learn how. The last time was around 2005 or so... )