Wire number table

I might be in over my head here, but I want to make an overview/summary-view drawing with a table of wire numbers that automatically updates.  The wire numbers I want in the table are those wired to a child connector symbol (part of a family) I created and these connector symbols are scattered across dozens of pages of our schematics.  The overview diagram will be a quick reference to help the electrician wire the connector with the correct wire numbers on each pin/socket of the connectors rather than having them try to hunt through way too many pages to find the pin/wire number combinations (or for me or my colleagues to do this manually).  What I don't know is how to link to the wire number connected to each child connector symbol to make this table?

Any input would be greatly appreciated.